hi! I’m glad you asked. Being young and in a career that lends itself to a lot of socializing, especially in NYC, it’s really hard to stay in and say no to plans! It’s important to have a balance, and if I’m feeling off and like I need to clean my room and read a book, I do it. But I also make sure to get out when I’m feeling like a social introvert.
I wouldn’t worry about “having both” I would worry about what makes you happy. For me, getting five hours of sleep and scrambling to work after a night of drinking isn’t what makes me happy. Though sometimes…..it might be necessary! I have figured out when to push back in regards to an overloaded social schedule. If you’re happy, and feel balanced, “having both” won’t matter :)